I'm the mother of two daughters sep tet ten years ago today
it is in the best interest of the child to be raised by his two parents and, when separated, to maintain personal relationships with each of them - that the judge, when deciding on the modalities of the exercise of parental authority, must take into consideration the ability of each parent to assume his or her duties and respect the rights of the other - that the court must therefore examine whether the behavior of the mother (who was moved hundreds of miles away) does not his refusal to respect the right of children to maintain regular contact with their father Whereas, it is in the best interest of the child to be raised by both their parents and, when separated, to maintain personal relationships with each of them that, to this end, any change of residence of one of the parents, when it modifies the terms of exercise of parental authority, must be the subject of a prior information and in a timely manner to the other parent that the court, when it decides on the modalities of the exercise of parental authority, must take into consideration the ability of each parent to assume his or her duties and respect the rights of the other That, by thus determining, without analyzing whether the behavior of the mother did not reflect her refusal to respect the right of children to maintain regular contact with their father, the court of appeal did not give legal basis to its decision in the light of the texts referred to above"What to do in the face of an EVG - Distance Geographic Volunteer: Referral, appeal, approach, letters prototypes
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ten-nine days, I learned again the refusal of the jaf to retrieve my girls. Yes I am a part of km from the place of life (which was nothing certain for him at this time) the father of my girls. When I agreed to rent this house I live in today, we were all amicable. How to do better then that with the father of my daughters we put an agreement together, we had discussed all of the two (he had me also write by e-mail), so that our girls finish the school year where we lived and then they would come live with me again.
In the meantime, he has set the story in front of the jaf, and I learned the day before h, finally, he sought the residence of my children home to him and his wife.
And twenty minutes before taking notice of all his accusations mansongère more than that, without concrete evidence. His lawyer murdered me as a mother of mystical dangerous, unsafe, against school ect, all of this without proof. I didn't have a good lawyer and I made myself plumée as it is not allowed. This has been very difficult for my girls because they put pressure psychological huge. at this time my daughters were eight and five years old. And I don't talk about it, I do not let go. It has even lodged a complaint against me for violating the modesty to my girls. All about pure thoughts paranoid who have been rejected by the social survey, fortunately. I remade a folder to return to the jaf at the end of June last, and his decision remained the same as his colleagues in the past.
It has nothing withheld from my requests, not even that of a family mediation.
His arguments shows me how much he was ridiculed and ignored my folder (yes I know like many others). Even the social worker, the educator and psychologist of the social survey have been surprised by this new rejection. I preferred to stop my job of moderator since a few days, because I feel unable to continue to take care of other children than my own. I have a feeling that it is useless to continue to take the lead to enforce my Rights in court, that at hand to put money and money and money in this machine rather than just keep them for my children, to live, all this for years and years and all that time my children in the midst of this chaos, screaming This is amazing I am a mother, a leader for children for the past four years, including those that I employ are very satisfied of my professionalism, my girls, they even do not understand the judge's decision but they are afraid to assert themselves for fear of the reactions of their father, I'm someone you can no longer clean, and there in the face of a kind of justice that works as if they were at the checkout of a supermarket 'on The twenty-four November, a family drama emerges: the father of my son takes away my little boy and moving in his country of origin in Egypt. Married since fourteen march to an egyptian and the mother of a little boy of two and a half years old born on the twenty and a, I live since one and a half months a drama: my husband, reside with me and my little boy in France since April, has left the marital home on the twenty-four November, with my son leaving for Egypt It was a Saturday, I'm leaving work at: am as all days and I come back at: at this point, nothing suspect, I tell myself that my son and his father went for a walk like they used to do then I try to call on his phone and I fall directly on the voice mail and then I began to be afraid I go in the room of the small, everything is in the same place. I go into our room, I opened the cabinet and I see that the clothes of my husband were gone but I don't believe in it. I am then in the kitchen and I immediately returns in his wardrobe and that I understand that he is gone It has taken care of to make a suitcase with his personal effects, but have taken nothing for my little boy. Panic, I take my car and I go to the gendarmerie brigade of my city. I filed a complaint when I discovered this, but unfortunately they were already in the aircraft (take-off the plane: at the airport of Roissy). The force was efficient and competent, and the egyptian authorities and the French have established a mediation with this Gentleman on his arrival in Cairo. This last has nothing wanted to know. Having the same rights as me, the mom, on my son, they have not been able to stop it. I'm forced to wait for a judgment for the right of custody. So I started my court proceedings two days after (because we were in the weekend) and I also made a folder civil. I have contacted the minister of foreign affairs and the prosecutor of the republic has also imposed a ban to leave the country that I renewed even though my son was already in Egypt. I know exactly where my baby since my husband's entire family to support (his parents, his sister, his niece).
four years that we are separated
don't take care of his son since he is diving instructor: it starts on the shores of the red sea and only comes back every two months. No scruples to leave his son for a long period of time with people who are not valid for take care of him. I'm already off my little boy in Egypt in August until October before the eyes of the mother of my husband, who said nothing (the submission of women is that they are silent). My husband is quick-tempered, possessive, and very exclusive with his son, he makes life very difficult Then from December to April, same thing, I decided to go back in France because my state of health was poor. I had to leave my son with his father because the latter had imposed a ban to leave the country for the child. It is as well that I'm back in France dépitée and unhappy knowing that my husband is allowed to throw my son into his family and return to see him only every two months. It is an abandonment so as me, mama, I could take care of my son hours on hours, but a father jealous is guilty of always the irreparable. After heavy negotiations Mister came to live with me in France in April and brought me back my son. From there we tried to reconstruct my son and myself. This has been difficult especially for my little boy: he has kept from all of these events a big concern psychological level of separation, it did not accept that I could leave him with the nanny and all this through the fault of his father which makes him suffer a chaotic lifestyle. Before the abduction, it had been two weeks that my son was okay and agreed to go to the nanny and when I was actually collecting, he was happy and I jumped in his arms. It is a love of a baby that does not deserve all this abuse from his father. His father is parental alienation. The rights of my little boy are hampered, my little angel deserves to be happy and not to be in deplorable living conditions. Unfortunately it does not allow me to see my little boy through Skype or talk on the phone: I do not have the right to a small news who tell me that my son is going very well and that he doesn't need her mama more no one teach her native language since there is a rejection of his French side.
I am sad to say that my son can no longer understand me, but the maternal love has no boundary and our connection there is a unit forever.
My child has no price, it is all I have in this world and I would fight each and every day even more to give him the life he deserves to have. My husband said"good muslim"doing his prayers five times a day and respecting all the texts of the Koran that he dictated.
You can just see that what kind of person are, in fact, that false believers and practice their own thinking.
They are liars, manipulators, and selfish. Me, an adult of twenty-six years, I can suffer and get up, but a child of two and a half years has no right to suffer because it is his life that will be affected. Several stories similar to mine fail, and this is incomprehensible, we have laws, texts of agreements ratified then where is the justice. Be aware that each mom sees his ray of hope and dream to return to her child I believe, and I do écroulerais ever.' A documentary tv informing of family drama on this link: (France three - Basse Normandie): a battle that I discovered in the face of the mother of my daughter, who was already distant to kms for the moment, on the eve of a weekend of hosting, and said the justice to this mother, of this practice of the beginning of alienation. NOTHING, then I provide overwhelming evidence, sms and voice messages, recorded by a bailiff, or his mother, said that she will do everything, and by all means, for I do not see my daughter, the more she boasts of having all the laws for it, and that said justice, NOTHING AND NOTHING, in this case it is an open door for the mother to go to the other end of France with my daughter in any impunity, frankly, justice is a misnomer. Through this judgment, the issue has evolved but still remains important to many judges confuse the lifestyle choices of the parent who took the child to the separation, and the life of the child, with its set of landmarks, screwed in the air to The argument in vogue in the courts follows from the fact that this is not the time spent with his child is important And the daily in all this.
